Aphorisms and thoughts about the androgynal state, about happiness in couples and about sexual continence®

by yoga professor Gregorian Bivolaru
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1. An intense, profound, endless love, which is doubled by powerful, lasting erotic aspirations, accepts transformation and variations. In such a situation, each of the two members of the group is at the same time a half of the whole, that the two create, but at the same time, each of them is a distinct micro universe, whose aspirations, dispositions, beneficial availability and sublime manifestations enrich the relation and does not compete it. Thus, lovemaking becomes more and more powerful and reach, being transformed.

 
2. Within a harmonious happy couple where the two lovers mutually endlessly adore, the lovemaking based on perfect continence, transfiguration and consecration of the fruits, acts in a synergic way and triggers an overwhelming, yet extraordinary state of paranormal empathy between the two lovers. Within common couples, that don’t reach such climax of profoundness, the extremely extraordinary state of spiritual and soul communion and the state of profound empathy is vaguely inferred and there comes the frustrating impression that the two lovers often lack words in order to express what they experience or infer. For example, such couples are often obliged to notice that they look for common words in order to express their joy or happiness.

That is why, such couples have the impression that they fail when trying to describe one another the spiritual experiences that they have. The obvious inadequate use of words and the intuition of the fact that, in reality, the experiences are more ample, may be balanced when (eventually) such human beings discover transfigured lovemaking, consecration of the fruits to God and the perfect continence, which reveals the profound euphoric, enigmatic and unexpected dimensions of paranormal empathy, that establish between them surprisingly easy.

When experienced for the first time, this unutterable delicious experience shows, at the same time, the unexpected value and the divine valence of the lovemaking based on transfiguration, mutual love, continence and consecration of the fruits to God the father.

Written by Diana Daffner – Diana Daffner leads Intimacy Retreats for couples and is the author of “Tantric Sex for Busy Couples: How to Deepen Your Passion in Just Ten …
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In the beginning, when love is new, romance, courting and conquest are aphrodisiacs, stimulants that increase our appetite for sexual union. Eventually the chase ends, hearts are won, and lifetime pledges are made. The happy couple says “I do,” strolls off into the sunset together, destined to be lovers forever.

So what happens? The newness fades, the passion flees. Where does it go? Does it get mortgaged along with the house? Disposed with the diapers? Years ago, Mary, age 49, shyly told her family doctor that she had lost interest in having sex with her husband. She was told this was a natural event, that women eventually lose interest and that’s the way it is. For some women, she was told, it comes earlier. Today, Mary might be offered testosterone patches to fire up her lagging libido!

by yoga professors Adina and Mihai Stoian

The discovery of the Self is a fascinating adventure, a journey full of experiences which you can make either alone or not… But in the couple the spiritual transformations are much faster and more efficient. And, as we all look for accomplishment through love, it is more natural to step towards the peaks of perfection together with the beloved being.    

Love is the divine gift for which we must be profoundly grateful. It is the key that opens for us the gate towards the Absolute, the magical catalyst of any beneficial becoming. For instance, anyone who has practiced meditation  for a longer period of time, knows how difficult it is to experience spiritual states with an agitated, full of thoughts and stressful mind. But when we fall in love, this gate towards the Absolute opens with an extraordinary easiness; because love is a very clever way of tricking the ego.      

The happiness of the other one spontaneously comes above one’s own happiness, and the other one’s wishes come above one’s own wishes. Love makes us open and generous, and the empathic quest of the other one’s soul will bring us closer to our own soul.

Love is a subject as vast as it is fascinating and mysterious. What could be more delightful in life than the broad and deep experience of this euphoric and ravishing feeling, that we call love? Love makes us expand from finite to infinite and it takes us off the loneliness of our beings. The delicious and overwhelming experience of falling in love makes us float with happiness and feel in the seventh heaven. Our love reservoirs are filled up to the maximum and the transfiguration of our beloved is exemplary. Why should we not always remain in this state of grace? To achieve this, however, we need a lot of attention and dedication and it is very important for us to know the way how we should manifest our love towards our beloved, for he or she can understand and feel it, on his/her own language, and he/she can always feel loved and appreciated in our relationship.

By Martin Svensson and Celestine Andersen.

This article is based on a lecture which was kept by Martin and Celestine in the International Yoga Congress 2010, which took place on 13-17 of October in Bucharest, Romania. On that event there were kept dozens of lectures and workshops by yoga teachers from all over the world. Among the participating teachers there was made a friendly contest for the best lecture. This lecture by Marin and Celestine won the 3rd place of all the lectures.

We will share our personal experience as a couple, upon tantric lovemaking, sexual continence and polarity as a method for spiritual growth, methods to transform the couple relationship into a spiritual engine through polarity and sexual continence, notions on the differences between men and women, and the game of polarity from a spiritual point of view.